If you are the partner of such a man you will know that it is crazy making. There are a million ways for a man to brush aside your concern and make you feel that you are overreacting. I have worked with many sex addicts and their partners for whom ogling is a serious problem. By that I mean often the sex addict will be unable to stop looking at attractive women and will be using the images of sexy women he sees in passing as a way to be swept away, to feed a fantasy life, and to avoid the person he is with. He was happily married yet he saw himself as being sexually compulsive in this one area.